Identity isn't something you find, it's something you design
Strategic coaching for women over 40 who are rebuilding: strip away the conditioning, trust yourself completely, and design what comes next.
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Let me show you how to reclaim your identity and uncover the woman you buried under decades of other people's needs.
even if you don't know who YOU are right now.
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Melissa Lanz
Your...
Coach
Permission Granter
Boss Lady
World Traveler
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I want to help you...
reclaim your identity and finally live as the woman you were meant to be before the world taught you to disappear.
for Accomplished Women OVER 40 Who Feel Like Strangers in Their Own Lives
The Identity Key
masterclass
Learn how to finally live like the woman you were meant to be before the world taught you to disappear.
You Shouldn't feel like THE question Mark in your next chapter.
For Women OVER 40 Who Know there's more to life than everyone else's needs
For Divorced Women Over 40 Who are ready to trust themselves again
The Identity Key Workshop
A 2-hour live workshop to help you rebuild your confidence, rediscover your identity, and start living like you again. Guilt-free, fear-free, and unapologetically alive.
Seats are limited for this live event
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Melissa Lanz
Melissa Lanz is a coach, author, and permission-granter, whose work blends soulful strategy, identity reclamation, and story-driven transformation. She guides accomplished women over 50 to uncover who they truly are, reclaim their voices, and step boldly into lives that feel unapologetically their own.